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 The difference between ideas and goals

Ideas are like a membrane that closes goals, so never separate between goals and ideas. The goal is what you have, the task to start now and strive to achieve, and the idea is the project of the goal that attracts you and you. they are ready to implement it at a later time.

What is the difference between ideas and goals?

 

The goal setting process is not about future movement, but more about the correct orientation. 

Therefore, if someone fails to differentiate between the goal and the idea, the issue will end up facing a series of goal projects, which discourages enthusiasm and weakens enthusiasm, as the list of ideas will lose importance. 

It's not even worth reading, but if the goals are clear, it will serve as a mirror that faithfully reflects who you are and where you are going, and this will give you the impetus to look ahead and move into your future.

 

 

Different types of goals

The objectives that a person sets are diverse and infinite, differing in their nature, size and time to achieve them.

 

• internal or external goals

There are goals related to influencing the world around us, and there are things related to developing the internal characteristics and qualities of the individual and external goals such as writing a book, owning a specific car, or doing a sport to reach a level. suitable. weight and body.

 

• Short or long term goals

There are long-term goals, such as maintaining a happy relationship with your spouse or raising children to be self-sufficient, and there are short-term goals, even including meeting a friend for lunch in two days or attending a duly happy event. .

 

• religious or secular goals

Goals can be religious in nature, such as observing rituals or allocating an annual amount to be spent on charitable causes, and goals can be worldly, such as achieving fame, wealth, or great political position.

 

• Steps to select a goal

Wander inside your mind, give yourself enough time and free your mind to swim in the world of limitless possibilities, and you will find that you have achieved a great deal of ideas in all areas of your life.

Start categorizing these ideas into categories, some of them are related to psychological comfort, some are related to education, some are related to health, some are related to employment, and so on.

Begin to reconcile the goal with the value that it will satisfy to achieve that goal.

Learn to separate between real goals and ideas that do not conform to a goal and that can serve as a means to achieve the goal.

Learn to separate the dream from the actual goal and between goals you don't intend to start with and goals that are worth the initiative for.

Steps to Setting Goals

• Roam inside your mind

If you want to live a life with purpose, you have to move from the general to the particular, in the sense that you begin to understand the values ​​you have to achieve your goals.

 

The goal process begins when you let go of your thoughts to imagine the shape of your life in the future, and the imagination is uncontrollable and there are no circumstances in the way. 

Write what comes to mind at that moment without thinking about the Difficulty to achieve it Difficulty may be easy one day, but not thinking of a goal because of difficulties will never lead to reaching it.

 

• Categorize the objectives

When you finish writing your thoughts, classify them into groups, some of which belong to the material aspect, and others are related to relationships, education or work, keeping in mind that some goals may be shared by more than one group.

 

• Aligning goals and values

After writing these classifications, begin to define the values ​​that help in the achievement of each goal, and the values ​​that you will satisfy when achieving this goal.

here you will see the problem that may have disappeared before, which is that some goals contradict values, and the solution lies in modifying the Goals to fit the values, or modifying your values ​​to serve your goals.

 

• Find blind spots

You may find some empty categories where you have no goals, the reason may be that this field does not fall in your area of ​​interest.

so it is located in one of the blind areas, so you have to wander in your thoughts. until you find the role of this aspect in your life and what you want your future to be in this matter.

 

• precision in thought

You have to carefully distinguish between real goals and ideas that are only means to achieve goals. Suppose.

for example, that there are two people with the same goal, let's buy a car (Mercedes), and that both believe that the goal will be This goal can be achieved within ten years. 

One of them is moving toward this goal with a different motive. One of them loves luxury and therefore wants it because it is luxurious, and the other needs the durability of German engines, so he wants it well done.